Friday, March 16, 2012

Anne B. Henly


I lost my grandmother in the year of 2009. The year 2009 was a blessing and a curse. The blessing of the year was that I graduated from high school and had my beautiful, handsome son. The curse of the year was when I lost my grandmother. My grandmother's death was the most devastating thing that I could of ever happen to my family and I. My grandmother was a very special person to our family.She was a strong, independent woman who would never tell you anything wrong. She also was a loveable person who loved everybody.

Sometimes at night, I dream about her. I think a lot about that night at West Point hospital when my grandmother became very ill. She was so bad off sick that they had to transfer her to Tupelo Medical Center. Did I mention that my grandmother was a diabetic? There at Tupelo Medical Center my grandmother died a peaceful death on October 6, 2009. I can remember on the way home from Tupelo, I looked up at the midnight sky and saw that the moon was a funny looking color. It was a color of a dark orange, redish color. It also was a full moon that night. The color of the moon scared me so badly, even though the moon be certain colors on different nights. I guess that I was scared because I lost my grandmother that night. That month was just an aweful month for my family.

My mother took it real hard. My mother and my grandmother were very close. My mother, whose name is Linda by the way, was so shocked when she found out that her mother had passed away. My grandmother meant everything to our family. Every time that I look into my Mom's face I can see my grandmother. She looks just like her. I miss her a lot. The whole family misses her. I know that she is in a better place now. She will forever be in my heart. This is it until next time. Enjoy.

                                                                              RIP My Angel

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  2. I am sorry to hear that you had to go through that... my son's father died of diabetes also. If it helps, I believe that nobody truly passes on and that they live in our hearts and our memories.

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  3. I'm sorry for your loss. You have a great post.

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    1. Dear April,
      I am truly sorry for your family's loss. Unfortunately, at some point, we all have to lose someone we love. Even though we miss them physically and mentally, the comfort lies in the fact that we know that they are watching over us from a better place. It doesn't make it any easier for you, though.
      You and your mom can focus on that little boy and find comfort in him. Sounds like you also have some wedding plans to focus on, too. Congratulations! Until next time, Nana B Runs With Scissors

      "Though this life may be gone in a week or today, you will forever be alive in the hearts of those who love you & will live forever in heaven until we see each other again in the presence of our Holy God and Savior Jesus."
      - Kodee Williams

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  5. I can relate with your blog. I lost my Aunt April 2010 and she was the glue in our family. I mean we are still close but things are just not the same.

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  6. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost the most important man in my life in December of 08. My grandfather. I miss him everyday. He never got to meet my daughter but a friend of mine told me this and it helped me. She said that he met her before she was born. So your grandmother met your son before you did. I hope that helps in anyway. I bet there is not a day that goes by where your grandmother does not check on all of you.

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  7. What a sweet tribute to your grandmother. I can certainly understand your pain. But time does heal. The pain will turn into wonderful memories. I lost my mother just a few months ago. I thought that I would be out of my mind when she died, but truthfully I have had nothing but peace. Yes, I miss her terribly. And I wish I could hear her voice on the phone. (Trust me, I have dialed her number a few times.) But for me, I had to quit being selfish in my wish to keep my mother here on this earth, and realize that it was time for her to meet our God. Sometimes, it's just time.

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